Have you made a deal with the devil?
I can’t count how many times I’ve heard phrases like this — comments that leave me feeling both confused and disheartened. Disheartened because of the heavy misconceptions, and for those who struggle to be accepted for who they truly are.
For many of us, our psychic senses, mediumship abilities, or other spiritual gifts are simply a natural part of who we are. We didn’t summon them, buy them, or “make a pact” to get them. We were born with them — just as others are born with a gift for art, music, or mathematics. Yet instead of being celebrated, these abilities are often met with fear, ridicule, or even accusations.
Imagine living your life, naturally attuned to energy and spirit, and experiencing truly beautiful moments — like witnessing a spirit cross over with an angel by its side, receiving guidance exactly when you need it, or helping someone release heavy, negative energy so they can move forward with lightness and joy. These moments are full of love, healing, and connection.
Now imagine being told you’re a terrible person for experiencing these things. That you should hide them away, pretend they don’t exist, and never speak of them — all to avoid being judged, shunned, or labeled as something dark.
Why Misconceptions Exist
For centuries, spiritual abilities have been misunderstood, feared, and even demonized. Much of this stems from cultural conditioning, misinformation, and fear of the unknown. People tend to label what they don’t understand, and over time, myths and fear-based narratives have taken root.
It’s similar to fire: when used with knowledge and respect, fire can cook meals, keep us warm, and forge incredible creations. But without understanding, it can burn and destroy. The same goes for spiritual abilities — education, awareness, and respect lead to safe, positive experiences.
Myth-Busting Spiritual Practices
Unfortunately, much of what people believe about psychic abilities, mediumship, and spiritual work comes from movies, TV, or fear-based teachings. Let’s clear up a few big ones:
Myth #1: Psychics and mediums make deals with dark forces.
Truth: Spiritual gifts are a natural part of being human — we all have intuitive senses. Many psychics and mediums work from a place of love, compassion, and connection with the highest good. Their intention is to help, not harm.
Myth #2: Psychics can read your mind at any time.
Truth: Psychic work is not like an “always-on” channel into your thoughts. It requires permission, intention, and focus to connect with energy or spirit messages.
Myth #3: All psychic or mediumship work is 100% accurate.
Truth: No one is perfect — messages are filtered through the reader’s own human understanding. Even the best psychics may get pieces of information that need interpretation.
Myth #4: Tarot cards or divination tools are evil.
Truth: Tarot, oracle cards, pendulums, and similar tools are simply ways to focus your intuition and receive guidance. They don’t create energy — they help you understand what’s already present.
Myth #5: Only certain “chosen” people have psychic abilities.
Truth: Everyone has intuitive senses. Some people are naturally more open to them, but with practice, anyone can strengthen their abilities.
How to Be Supportive of Someone on a Spiritual Path
Not everyone will personally connect with psychic work, mediumship, or spiritual practices — and that’s okay. But showing respect and understanding can make a huge difference for those who do.
1. Listen without judgment.
You don’t have to fully understand someone’s experience to validate it. Simply listening with an open mind creates a safe space for them to share.
2. Avoid fear-based comments.
Saying things like “That’s dangerous” or “You’re dealing with evil” without understanding their practice can cause harm. If you’re unsure, ask questions instead of making assumptions.
3. Celebrate their gifts.
Encourage them to explore their abilities and share their talents. Even if it’s not your path, you can appreciate that it brings them joy and purpose.
4. Respect boundaries.
Some spiritual practitioners need downtime after readings or energy work. Honor their self-care and energetic limits.
5. Be curious, not critical.
Ask about their experiences and the meaning behind what they do. Curiosity builds bridges; criticism builds walls.
Why This Matters
Supportive environments allow people to grow into their gifts with confidence instead of shame. Fear and judgment shut people down, while encouragement helps them flourish — often using their abilities to help others, heal, and spread kindness.
When we choose understanding over fear, we not only protect the well-being of those with spiritual gifts — we help dismantle centuries-old misconceptions that have caused unnecessary harm.
Spiritual practices are not one-size-fits-all, and they are certainly not inherently negative. The more we open the conversation, challenge myths, and approach each other with compassion, the more we create space for truth, growth, and healing.
Mantra:
“I honor my gifts, I honor others’ paths, and I release fear with love.”
Journal Prompt:
Reflect on a time when someone misunderstood you or your beliefs. How did it feel, and how could the situation have been different with more understanding?